Wanting to cuddle with a straight guy...advice needed!

Hello guys,

quick background, so I am 20 years old second year in college I just met this guy about 4 months ago and needless to say I have developed strong feelings for him, so naturally I want to get close to him both mentally and physically...as of right now I am sadly 90% sure he is straight so pursuing a relationship level of affection with him is probably out of the question, but perhaps there is a chance if I ask him at the right time in the right way that he would be willing to try cuddling with me? He seems pretty lonely and I have heard him say that he misses cuddling with his ex girlfriend, but on the same token he has said to me that he is not a touchy feely person so I am a little confused.

So my question to you guys is, What is the best way I can approach him and tell him that I would like to give him that type of warm affection without giving away that I am gay for him?

 

Thanks for the quick response!

I think you are ultimately right and I should say nothing about because it could be a dead give away, but I strongly feel like he already has a very strong indication that I am attracted to him! the reason being is one day we were talking about girls and he said he wants to find another to pursue and I jokingly said "what don't you just pursue me?" He laughed and replied, "Im sorry but I could never be gay."

Now I am wondering if he thought I was serious or not, he could very well think that I am gay because I have never been with a girl and he knows that...we are currently taking a break from hanging out because he described my behavior towards him as suffocating granted we were constantly hanging out but it still seems weird...

let me know what you think.