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Bisexual or lesbian??

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by CLWife, Mar 11, 2017.

  1. CLWife

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    I am lesbian (or I just believe that). When I am watching lesbian porn I feel disgusted. They seem so fake to me and I feel lesbian porn is only made for straight guys. That girls have that big and fake boobs, big nails and they mostly use a dildo. Very disgusting! I like boobs and butt, but not very big. When I am watching straight porn I only feel turned on when I hear that "ahh" coming from the girl and when she seems to like it. Sometimes I almost have an orgasm by only hearing that girl making that sounds and seeing her satisfied face. But no. I don't wanna have sex with boys. I like when I see penises, but only penises, not guys. I am really attracted to a bad girl who doesn't even know I exist :slight_smile: .
    So what do you think? I might be a lesbian or bisexual? (I am surely not straight)
     
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    Lesbian in my opinion.

    Porn has NOTHING to do with sexuality. I'm a lesbian that only watches guy on guy. It's just like how you can enjoy gory horror movies without being a psychopath or serial killer. Just because you enjoy a "fictional" act of something on screen doesn't mean you have the desires to do it.
     
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    Creativemind is right. Porn has little to do with what you're aroused to really. I read straight romances, and even sometimes watch straight porn but I know I'm gay deep down.

    Relax, everyone has their quirk for the dirty deed. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yup. The funny thing here is that I'm actually writing a heterosexual romance roleplay (that has graphic sex scenes in it!) with an RP partner.

    The kicker? I'm a lesbian and my RP partner is an aromantic asexual. Neither of us have heterosexual attractions, and yet are capable of writing hetero romance and smut.
     
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    Yeah, it seems like more straight men and women enjoy lesbian porn, while lesbians enjoy gay male porn, and gay men enjoy... well, you get the point.

    I don't see anything to indicate attraction towards men.
     
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    Porn is worthless. Judging anything by reaction to porn is impossible.

    It's my wife's opinion you have to dry out from porn watching for a while before you can even begin to figure out how you feel.
     
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    I think you're a lesbian even though you're the only one who could know for sure..
    I'm gay and I hate most of lesbian porn too...it seems so fake and most of the times they are annoyingly girly for me and I can't relate to that.. So don't worry! That doesn't make you bisexual..