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Is It A Crush Or Not?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bluneighborhood, Mar 20, 2017.

  1. bluneighborhood

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    Hello babes!

    So, I'm a lesbian, and I've felt 100% sure about this for 2+ years...or so I thought.

    I think I might have a crush on a boy.

    He's one of my friends and I really like hanging out with him and I want to be closer to him, but I can't tell if these feelings are romantic or friendly. I've never felt this way about a boy before, and I'm just don't want to be confused anymore.
     
  2. AlexJames

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    Idk. I've wondered this about coworkers. In the end i decided they weren't by asking myself sort of crude questions. Could i picture myself being in a relationship with them, being intimate with them? Did i have any desire at all to touch them? That sort of thing. Like i said it sounds crude to me but its what helped me figure it out.