Hello babes! So, I'm a lesbian, and I've felt 100% sure about this for 2+ years...or so I thought. I think I might have a crush on a boy. He's one of my friends and I really like hanging out with him and I want to be closer to him, but I can't tell if these feelings are romantic or friendly. I've never felt this way about a boy before, and I'm just don't want to be confused anymore.
Idk. I've wondered this about coworkers. In the end i decided they weren't by asking myself sort of crude questions. Could i picture myself being in a relationship with them, being intimate with them? Did i have any desire at all to touch them? That sort of thing. Like i said it sounds crude to me but its what helped me figure it out.