Hi guys. I'm gay and I consider myself versatile. Although I bottom most of the times (in part because I'm get too nervous when topping). I enjoy bottoming, but I can't stop feeling ashamed because of it. I feel like I'm less of a man, inferior to the top, etc. I don't feel that all the time, it comes and goes, but It seems I will never get over this feeling Only recently I've come to terms with my sexuality, so maybe I need more time? Anyone that went through the same wants to share their experience? Would be interesting to see some womens viewpoints as well? thanks!
So one thought of you change positions whereas I are in control does that change how you feel. Having. The top on his back and I on top controlling the entire process maybe that will Make u feel differently . I am versatile and really don't feel inferior when I bottom but I understand what you are saying and can see how it may happen as many tops think they are alpha tops etc
Thanks for the response Mj. For me I don't think its the actual physical position as much as just the ideal of it.
Gotcha well I suppose you will Just have to work though it because not sure what else can offer . Sexuality is So complicated and fluidn
Not if the top knows what he is doing , lots of lube and go slow , I like to be on top and slowly slip down on the bottom so control it once inside it is awesome