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Different Roles

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jmiller85, Mar 28, 2017.

  1. Jmiller85

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    Hi guys. I'm gay and I consider myself versatile. Although I bottom most of the times (in part because I'm get too nervous when topping). I enjoy bottoming, but I can't stop feeling ashamed because of it. I feel like I'm less of a man, inferior to the top, etc. I don't feel that all the time, it comes and goes, but It seems I will never get over this feeling :frowning2: Only recently I've come to terms with my sexuality, so maybe I need more time? Anyone that went through the same wants to share their experience?

    Would be interesting to see some womens viewpoints as well?
    thanks!
     
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    So one thought of you change positions whereas I are in control does that change how you feel. Having. The top on his back and I on top controlling the entire process maybe that will
    Make u feel differently . I am versatile and really don't feel inferior when I bottom but I understand what you are saying and can see how it may happen as many tops think they are alpha tops etc
     
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    Thanks for the response Mj. For me I don't think its the actual physical position as much as just the ideal of it.
     
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    Gotcha well I suppose you will
    Just have to work though it because not sure what else can offer . Sexuality is
    So complicated and fluidn
     
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    Does it hurt?
     
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    Not if the top knows what he is doing , lots of lube and go slow , I like to be on top and slowly slip down on the bottom so control it once inside it is awesome
     
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    I would be like a lost puppy lol.