I don't know if I'm bi or just gay. I have a crush on this guy in my class. He's gorgeous but I still question it. I have no dating experience and Ive only told one person about how I'm feeling. Generally, I don't want to be a lesbian so I'm scared any crushes I have on the opposite sex are because I'm still repressing who I am. I somewhat dated a guy for a couple months but even though we had a good friendship I remember feeling scared or nervous that he would kiss me at times. I don't know if I ended things because i wasn't ready for what he was offering me or because I didn't like him. I daydream about being with both guys and girls. Any opinions or personal experiences you could tell me about would be nice. A lot of times I read these posts and they seem to lean towards a certain sex (at least from what they wrote) but they don't know for themselves yet. I'm trying to accept not knowing.
I am right there with you! I look a females and kind of want to date them but not as much as I look at guys and want to be in a relationship with them. To me, it depends on the day and how I'm feeling. Sometimes I want to be with a girl and sometimes I want to be with a guy. Try and find someone that you're interested in whether it's a girl or guy and just go for it. I've done this quite a few times and have been hurt. But trust me, even though it hurts, it actually helps you because it tells you feel about a certain gender(if that makes sense). Best of luck!
Thank you for your reply! It depends for me too sometimes. And I think that I overthink it so much I end up feeling stressed and confused. I'm also scared to try and date someone and end up hurting them with my indecisiveness. This is gonna be a slow process for me I think. But thanks again!
