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I need some help...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by MrFabian, Apr 23, 2017.

  1. MrFabian

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    I am a 16 year old boy, and have been questioning my orientation for a couple of years. Never bern really into girls, however i can be sexually and romantically attracted to them. But i have started getting interested in boys as well, i would really like to see myself with a husband in like 20 years or so. This may sound weird, but i kind of hope i turn out to be gay, is that normal? I just find it boring being straight. Also note that i think i am romantically interested in men, but not as sexually interested, although if i try i get turned on by things like gay porn. Help would be appreciated, i've been struggling with this, and it stresses me the shite out. Thank You!
     
  2. James23367

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    Start with the assumption you are bi and be open to personality not gender and see who you click with.
     
  3. Airisofparis

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    well i think since you've been questioning for so long and are researching it there is a good chance your gay or at least bi. If you like the thought of having a husband in 20 years thats also a good indication you could be gay. I'd say be open minded and experiment. If you end up falling in love with a boy and never being with a girl thats ok, or the other way round, or both. i know its hard but not try not to worry about it to much, it'll work out adventually. Just remember that sexuality is fluid and good luck! i hoped this helped a bit