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How to find out someone's sexuality without asking

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Shasta, Apr 23, 2017.

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  1. Shasta

    Shasta
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    There are couple women I'm interested in a couple go sleep and would like to find their sexuality with out asking. The only hint I have is fb

    One has interested in checked to men and the other has hers blank.

    The reason I ask there has been times when assumed someone was straight because they had their profile checked to interested in to opposite gender and I later found they were gay/bi
     
    #1 Shasta, Apr 23, 2017
  2. Chip

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    There's no way to reliably tell without asking, unless the person happens to wear a rainbow bracelet or something.
     
    #2 Chip, Apr 23, 2017
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    Even if they have a rainbow bracelet, they could also be an ally.
     
    #3 thatcelloguy, Apr 23, 2017
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    The one that keeps it blank is your best bet I think. I kept my fb blank when I had not officially come out because I did not want to call myself straight but did not have experience with women so I felt awkward calling myself anything else.
     
    #4 flor, Apr 23, 2017
  5. Creativemind

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    There is literally no possible way to know without asking, and especially for women.
     
    #5 Creativemind, Apr 24, 2017
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