I tend to become somewhat attracted (though not sexually) to good looking men with medium length/long hair. I think it's more of an emotional/romantic attraction, because if I think about kissing them, it does turn me right off. Though, the thought of being close to them (e.g. cuddling) is really nice. For example, today at university we had a different teacher who helped run our class - probably in his 40s. He had an amazing personality, was very creative, with long-ish, wavy hair and a great sense of style. I was like... um, WOW. I don't know why, but I was intrigued and thought of that 80s 'rock star' look (e.g. Bono in his early days, and Michael Hutchence). I'm most certainly a lesbian and have been out for two years. I feel very sexually attracted to women. I just don't know what it is about men with long hair! I think it's beautiful on them and it makes me want to be like them. I suppose I'm not questioning myself, but simply sharing my thoughts. Maybe it's the typical 'femininity' associates with long hair that draws me in. Can anyone relate?