So I'm pretty sure i'm gay and want to tell my best friend who is not religiuos and has a gay hairdresser but am frightened incase she no longer wants to befriends with me. Again I think i'm gay but not 100% sure as I've fancied a teacher for 3 years and while it's no longer romantic attraction ,I still find her sexually attractive,and i've seen a few other girls i've though "woah she's hot" also I used to have a crush on Dianna Agron (although it was more Faberry related) ,i'ma huge Faberry fan and I LOVE genderswap Klaine. I did go out with a boy once when I was 13 but I was never really attracted to him I just liked the attention he gave me I actually wanked him off 20 secs once NEVER AGAIN most boring thing (and disgusting thing) i''ve ever done, and i've never been attracted to any other boys I can see why people would ut they do nothing for me sexually or romontically. Although i'm very picky with girls too I find if they have big smiles (like chessy oness) then I really fancy them and if they have brown hair and I don't like slutty ones or anything. I like all forms of porn except cumshots and blowjobs (yuk).My parents thinki'm gay and many people have pointed out to me (although I dress feminine) so I could do with advice on that too. Any Advice?
Hi, Welcome to Empty Closets! It does sound to me like you are a lesbian. Some day you will think it is hilarious that your 13-year-old relationship where you were grossed out when you wanked him off made you think you might actually like boys. You really don't seem to have any interest in guys at all. Nobody likes all girls. Everyone only has a few people they are really attracted to. If all of them are girls for you, then it would make sense for you to identify as a lesbian. It is perfectly normal for it to only be a few girls. Please try not to use the word "slut," or its derivatives, as it implies that women are made less worthy and valuable as human beings when they have had more sex. I'm confused about what the last thing you are asking advice for is. The fact that many people seem to think you are gay? I'm not sure what your question is about it. Or was it something to do with porn? Many lesbians like gay male porn, so you probably shouldn't worry too much about porn in determining your sexual orientation. If that was what you were worried about... EDIT: Oh, and regarding your best friend, she sounds like someone you should be able to come out to. Did you want advice about how to go about it? How did you come out to the 5 people you told already?
my best mate was the first person i told.i think it was to much for him being the only one i had told . only after another mate knew was he really sweet with it not that he didnt try .my advice tell the person you think would be most supportive not necessarily your best friend.
Thank you I wanted a confirmation on my sexuality as I've never really fancied any other girls romantically either however you ask about the coming out business well it was when I went on a school trip these 3 girls I was sharing a room with asked me what boys I liked I told them I didn't like any and they said "oh come on there must be someone you like" so I said it was a teacher but you'll never guess who. After going through basically all the male teachers one of them finally asked me "is it a girl you like?" I told them yes and told them who it was they were fine with it however I felt great if finally told someone but I felt a bit uncomfortable too (I don't think I fully accepted it). That was when I was 15 nearly 16 after we broke up for the summer in year 10 ( it was a school trip which included said teacher). My coming out to the other two a boy and a girl was later in about February of year 11 the boy who I had suspected of being gay for a while came out to me so I finally got the guts to tell him I too was gay, he hung around with a girl who was basically his best friend and did everything with him and I went swimming with them and record if I was going to hang out with them they might as well both know so I told her too again she took it fine, I recently told another gay boy and a girl in my englishclass . My mum asked me because appears lyre I watch a lot of gay program's and constantly talked about the teacher I fancied when I came home from Poland. Yes it's the coming out to the best mate I need advice on.
Also sorry I called them slutty I didn't mean like in a sexual way I thought it meant like someone who dresses very provocatively and looks plastic
