is anyone else questioning their sexuality?

I have seen a lot of threads with people asking about the same thing, so I can assure you that you are not alone in questioning your sexuality I might have done it once upon a time, but it is a while ago, and today I am quite fine with it! It gets easier as one gets older, and learn more about oneself. At least that was how it was for me You want to tell us more, about what you struggle with?

 

I'm 22 and still questioning my sexuality so you are not alone. I really don't have any idea what I'm so, I'm just go with what feels "right" if that makes any sense.
If you want to talk (or type) hehe I'll listen.

 

Yeah definitely I've got it down that I like girls, it's the guys I'm no completely sure about. I mean, I've had crushes on a couple guys before, but it was just their personalities. Not to mention they all had sort of girly faces :/
And I never wanted to do anything further than maybe holding hands or something.
But sometimes I wonder. That's why I like the Kinsey scale. It's not so black and white. I figure I'm probably around a 5

 

Yeah. I'm pretty certain I like guys but still trying to figure out my feelings about girls.

Confusing stuff. :/

 

Definitely. For now, and maybe until I find "the one", I'm perfectly fine with just being me.

 

I am totally perplexed at the moment. I am a 21 year old girl and have always liked/been with guys but met this girl a couple of months ago. She totally fell for me and it was all a bit awkward so I had to tell her that it would never happen because I'm not gay. I told her this many many times when she would try make a move.
But in the past few weeks, I find myself thinking about her a lot, looking at her facebook profile a lot, waiting for her to come on line.. etc.
The strange thing is, I saw her kiss a girl in a bar last night and it actually got to me! I got a bit jealous!
I have never had an interest in girls and am still just attracted to guys... But it's this girl!? I dont know what going on in my head!?

 

Sometimes I'll think about how life would be like if I was dating a girl, other times it seems weird and the thought of dating a guy sounds nice...it's frustrating, especially when my family is all like, "You should learn how to cook, that way you can make your husband food."

I just nod but inside I'm like, "Well...I don't even know if I like guys...but making myself food sounds great!"

 

I've done that before, but since she lived in NYC it was hard so it didn't last...I'm more comfortable thinking about being with a girl, but at the same time, it makes me uncomfortable. Guys for me are kinda just...there, ya know? But then I always think there might be this incredible guy in the future that I'll meet.

I might as well just be asexual and get a dog.

 

With me and NYC (ohh, that rhymes) we fought so much I wondered just what we saw in each other. Then again we kind of fit into the generic girl/girl couple: I was the girly girl (even though I'm not) while she was more masculine and tomboyish. She was fun to talk to and I really liked her, but she also slept around and toyed with people's feelings, and I couldn't deal with that. I still have a bit of feelings for her...

I also remember having a boyfriend who was the ultimate douche. He was nice to me and caring when we were alone. But get us in public and he'd treat me like some stranger. I couldn't eat with him at school, he blew off our dates to hang with his friends and tried to make it up with, "I'm sorry babe I won't do it again." Pssh. The week after I broke up with him, he was dating someone else. I'm just really glad I didn't give him my first kiss.

Sometimes I think I'm just going through some "phase", but this has been going on for years, I'm not even sure if I'm capable of being with someone; it doesn't feel right anymore.

 

:O That's just like her too lol. I was always the one pouring out everything, but she kept everything she felt bottled up. To me anyway, she always went to another friend of mine to vent. It made me feel a bit alone and that I was annoying her. In a way we were both insecure about a lot.

There's a guy who has a huge crush on me and is super nice, yet he just...I don't know, I don't see us being more than friends. I would assume that doing it at 12 would suck, but to me, doing it at any age sounds very suckish...and gross.