Recently i came to the conclusion that i might be bi, but their are different factors invovled that is making me question it. I have a crush on 3 different people at my schoool , 2girls and 1 guy. I'm not really sure if the attraction i have for these people are geniune. I'm not sure if I'm sexually attracted to girls, i don't get aroused by looking at images of naked women, or by fantasies of women. unless the women is dominating someone usually a men , or if i imagine being the one dominated.but i get turn on by gay porn easily but kissing and oral are turn offs for me. but now I'm not i don't have a problem with it. Also i think i have a porn problem and i been trying to stop, when i go for somwhere between 1-2 weeks without porn i noticed that i become more aroused by the thought and image of women, but i still have some attraction to men. Also i have some momets when i not turnon by men but am interested in women instead. I'm not sure if it the porn that is making me more confused, and just quit watching it. i also want to know is it ok for me to explore ans start dating different people of different genders inorder to find out who i am.
I think that a very good way to find out who you are is to date and see. I think that is ok, but you have to be sure to be honest with who you are dating. You could tell them something like you are trying to meet people or something, but not ready for a commitment and can promise anything, or if you think they would understand you, you could tell them you are experimenting with your sexual orientation.
