Hey guys I just stumbled upon this site and I really think its brilliant. But I need some help with what im going through, Im not sure if im straight or not. To just put it in a nutshell, im 20 years old and Ive dated alot of women, but never really settled in a long term relationship. at 18 I was curious and thought i could try a casual encounter with guys and see what it was like and a couple times had oral sex given and received. But I still am very attracted to women and have no problem having sex with them either. I just got out of my longest relationship to date with a girl and it ended on a reallllly bad note but just like any other relationship the sound of a girlfriend kinda just turned me off. but in the meanwhile ive been having sex with a few different girls. is it bad that i think about giving oral to guy sometimes? but then again i fantasize just as much to having sex with girls? I have no one to talk to about this and i feel really good to finally get it off my chest
You sound like the simple definition of bisexual i suggest you try relationships with both and just go through them until you find someone you wana settle down with.
Welcome to EC! You're asking a website for gay/bi folks if it's bad that you think about giving head to a guy? What do you think we're going to say? If you're mainly attracted to women, and want to stick with them, I don't see any issue with that. If you want to date or (safely) hook up with guys when you're between girlfriends, I don't see any issue with that, either. Lex
