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I think I'm Bisexual, how do I know?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by PinkFluff, Mar 7, 2013.

  1. PinkFluff

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    According to wikipedia, Bisexuality is, in brief:
    Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior toward males and females.

    This somes up how I feel, but do you I feel little sexual want towards men (I hate anal). Does the mean that I'm not Bisexual and just feminine? Any help would be nice.
     
  2. PinkFluff

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    My failure of the english language strikes once again, let me try again:

    According to wikipedia, Bisexuality is, in brief:
    Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior toward males and females.

    This sums up how I feel, but I don't feel any lust or sexual desire towards men (I can't stand anal). Does mean that I'm not bisexual and just feminine?

    Any help would be very nice.

    Thanks :3
     
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    Why do you say you might be bi if you don't feel sexual desire for men? If you are defining sex as anal, that might be confusing. Many gay men don't have anal sex. Do you want to kiss them and do other things?

    And welcome to EC.
     
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    Being Bi or Gay (or Straight) is not a question of "what" we do with others

    Rather it is associated with who we relate to physically or spiritually
     
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    Ask yourself these questions. Am I sexually and intimately attacted to men? Or am I sexually attracted to men? Or just intimately attractred to men? Ask yourself the same questions about women also. If you answer yes to any of these questions, you may possibly be bi. However only you can determine what your true sexual orientation is and what you feel comfortable with.
     
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    I think you need to clarify whether you just don't desire men sexually at all, or if you just specifically don't want to participate in anal sex. There are lots of things to do with men other than anal sex.