Hey there, Im a 20 year old male currently questioning my sexuality. The thing is, I can get off to watching straight, lesbian, and gay porn. Gay porn turns me on some of the time, but I don't think I could bring myself to do it with a guy. So I understand that I could be bisexual. However, Ive only ever fallen for girls. Ive had about 10 female crushes in my life, and 0 dude crushes. I want nothing more than to find one special girl, hold her, cuddle her, kiss her, love her...everything. But this whole gay porn shit makes me wonder if I really want that, or if its just wishful thinking. Please someone, give me some advice. I could really use some help.
Hi, Welcome to Empty Closets. Well, you might want to look into it more, because denial can be a very powerful thing. But overall, porn isn't life. Sometimes people who watch a lot of porn get desensitized to the kinds of porn they are used to, and look for more novel porn, even if it doesn't match with their sexual orientation. Try abstaining from porn and letting your mind fantasize about whatever it wants when you masturbate for a while, and see what happens, who you think of. Don't try to steer it. And pay attention to who you are attracted to in real life. That's really the important thing.
aye man im like you... minus the porn ... im not into gay porn... real big on lesbian porn though... umm i know im gay..coz im attracted to guys... just never had any physical contact with them and dont find it attractive at all... (hope fully that will change by the end of this week) like you, i prefer chicks over dudes hands down... but i do think of guys... dont really know what guy im into never had a crush on any dude before...
