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So confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Notsuremd, Mar 29, 2013.

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What do you think I am?

Poll closed Apr 18, 2013.
  1. Straight

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  2. Bi

    66.7%
  3. Lesbian

    33.3%
  1. Notsuremd

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    Hi! This is my first post here. I'm a 15 years old girl, and I came here because I am very confused about my sexual orientation. I've had some crushes and a "serious" boyfriend, but it didn't last long. I haven't ever fall in love with a girl, but i have felt an attraction. Usually when I think about love I think about a guy...
    I love watching glee and my favourite couple is the lesbian couple, i don't know if this means anything... This also happens in Pretty Little Liars, but this time it isn't just the couple, I feel an attration by on of the girls in the show. Am I lesbian, bi or am I just to envolved in the show?
    Maybe this is just a phase or maybe it isn't, i really confused i wanted to know if someone have ever been in this situation and some help.
     
  2. Ruby

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    I think it might not be as simple as gay, straight or bi....I think you might be trying to force yourself into a little box when sometimes things like gender or sexual orientation can't fit into those boxes.
     
  3. FallenAngel

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    Yea, you're so young and you have so much time to figure yourself out. I'd say be open to whatever life and love has in store for you. I've been worrying about labels so much myself lately, and I'm learning to just...be open :slight_smile:
     
  4. AshesofAshley

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    I wouldn't worry about labeling yourself. You will figure things out as you learn from experiences both good and bad. Whatever you do, be safe, ALWAYS use protection if getting into any sexual circumstance. You are so young that you may change your mind a million and one times. So don't fight the current, just go with the flow and it will all turn out in the end!
     
  5. Sayu

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    I'd say bi-curious, so I picked "bi". But you sound more straight than bi to me. Give it time and you'll see :slight_smile:
     
  6. Hexagon

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    I don't think its really right for us to tell you what you are. Just watch some porn, or something separate from TV, and see which you're attracted to.