First off, I'm new here, so thanks if you've taken the time to read this and reply. I'm only 14 (15 next week), so I know, I'm still quite young to know for sure. But since I was 11, I've been confused. That may have something to do with the fact I moved up to high school then, and I go to an all girls school. I had a crush on a guy for a while. But he's been my only one. There were about 6 girls in this period that I've been confused about. I went online and talked to a few people, but I was still so unsure. I eventually dated a girl, we were only together for a month. I ended it, because I didn't think it was what I wanted. I thought I would prefer to be with a guy. I tried socializing with guys after that, for 6 months. But I still just didn't feel anything toward another guy. I told my best friend how I was feeling, and she was so understanding. She helped me a lot. But then I found myself looking at her, a lot. I started to have dreams about her, us kissing and stuff. 3 months later, I still do this. She has a boyfriend, so I'm not going to tell her, I'm confused about her, because I know she is straight. She's just so gentle and kind, not like most other girls I know. I jus:icon_sad::icon_sad:t don't know what to do. Does it sound like I'm bi/lesbian? Please help and reply:icon_sad:
I go to an all girls school too!(*hug*)(!) My birthday is also in a little more than a week! Welcome to EC! I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but you are the only one who can define your sexuality. It's complicated and makes you wanna :bang: a lot, but it's true. Try to give it time and to tell yourself it's okay not to know.
I'd recommend that you give yourself some time before you label yourself. The questioning phase can be a bit confusing because your hormones are bouncing off the walls right about now. You are still young, but I have a niece your age, so I'm not going to say you're too young to figure out if you're bisexual/gay. Just follow your heart and don't try to force yourself to fit a certain label. Take your time and have fun (*hug*)
thanks. it's just i don't know what to do. because i'm worried that if i am, my parents won't accept me. i know they won't. but i don't want to kid myself i'm straight just because of them, if i'm not ---------- Post added 1st Apr 2013 at 07:46 AM ---------- Thanks. it's just i don't know what to do. because i'm worried that if i am, my parents won't accept me. i know they won't. but i don't want to kid myself i'm straight just because of them, if i'm not
