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How Do YOU Define Attraction?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by FractiousJ, Apr 7, 2013.

  1. FractiousJ

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    So, I'm curious since I'm still having trouble with this aspect, how do you define attraction? How do you know when you're attracted to someone?

    Is it a conscious thought? Like Damn, he/she's hot!
    Is it a feeling?
    Is it a physical response?

    What is it for you?
     
  2. BoiGeorge

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    It's all of the above for me. I usually feel my heartbeat quicken, my body shake and all my attention is directed at him/her. I can't get them out of my mind and I become somewhat obsessed with them! That's how I define attraction
     
  3. LailaForbidden

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    This. Exactly this. :kiss:
     
  4. Yup I usually feel my heartbeat quicken as well. If I'm attracted to a guy I get all smiley and can't stop giggling, I also go out of my way to touch him somehow - playfully nudge him or something.
    With a woman my heartbeat quickens and I get really excited to be around them.