So, I'm curious since I'm still having trouble with this aspect, how do you define attraction? How do you know when you're attracted to someone? Is it a conscious thought? Like Damn, he/she's hot! Is it a feeling? Is it a physical response? What is it for you?
It's all of the above for me. I usually feel my heartbeat quicken, my body shake and all my attention is directed at him/her. I can't get them out of my mind and I become somewhat obsessed with them! That's how I define attraction
Yup I usually feel my heartbeat quicken as well. If I'm attracted to a guy I get all smiley and can't stop giggling, I also go out of my way to touch him somehow - playfully nudge him or something. With a woman my heartbeat quickens and I get really excited to be around them.