Hi everyone, I'm new and I'm having some doubts about my orientation. For some reason I'm only attracted to the soft masculine type girls. A friend told me that it must mean I'm straight. Dont get me wrong. Feminine girly girls are very sexy, but I don't see myself sharing a bed with one. What does it mean? Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Sorry, I can't be of any real help, but I am sort of the inverse. I'm a guy who typically is only attracted to masculine type girls, and I have no idea if that makes me gay. I suspect I'm towards that end of the spectrum. Well, not quite the inverse, but close enough
I identify as gay. Ive only ever had gay sexual and romantic experiences. But I admit that some masculine women are so very attractive to me. On the topic of the vastness and at times confusing aspect of sexuality, one of my favorite quotes ive heard is a friend who was talking about a drag queen he as a straight male was (apparently very) sexually attracted to: "it doesnt make me gay, but it doesnt make me straight either." It struck me as an interesting and honest space to exist in. Maybe this is just what other people already know. Haha, but its all new thoughts to me. What an interesting thing sexuality is. If only it werent taken so seriously.
If you were attracted to more feminine males would that make you gay? It would not. Ergo, liking masculine females does not make you straight. I don't know what type of guys you are into (says on your profile you're bi), but have you considered it's possible that you're attracted to masculinity in general, and that because you're bi, this makes you prefer women who are more masculine?
i dont know ... that sounds interesting... i love very fem girls and then very masc guys ... i dont want a butch chick coz i can just get a guy if i wanted butch/masc and vice versa for guys... no to fem guys coz i can just get a girl etc... im quite eager to see what other posters have to say about this...
I'm seriously, absolutely attracted to masculine girls/women, and that doesn't mean I'm straight. Just because they are guyish doesn't mean they're actually guys, if that makes sense. There's a whole lot underneath that's completely different, and I don't want or need what the guys have. :b
Im quite masculine and my attraction lies mainly in soft butch women. Theres something so sexy about a girl in a suit or in jeans and a vest!
Well the fact that you are attracted to girls means that you're clearly not straight.Everybody is attracted to different types of people, there's no set rule that a lesbian has to be into butch women, or a man has to be into feminine women etc. Everybodys tastes are different. ---------- Post added 10th Apr 2013 at 04:01 AM ---------- I meant that you're attracted to guys* ---------- Post added 10th Apr 2013 at 04:03 AM ---------- No I didn't, I did mean girls. I read another post that confused me... Yeah, anyway, the point still stands, everybody is into different things... and I'm confused.com
