So im pretty sure im bisexual, over the past probably less then 6 months id say ive started being interested in guys when i never was before it was really unexpected and sudden i can still masturbate to exclusively girl porn though and its pretty much all i do because im 1. Sorta trying to avoid the fact i like guys and 2. I just enjoy it alot anyway i go for the gay porn every so often though and its harder to fantasize about girls but with visuals its fine, when i hook up with girls i still get rock hard but im supposed to go further with a girl soon and im afraid of going soft again which is what happened the last time i tried getting head from someone else, it was my first time though and it could have just been because of nerves and anxiety because some of my older friends have said it happened to them too and the internet also says it can happen, so my only question is will i be ok on getting head from a girl or do you think ill go soft again and im just gay in denial
I feel the same way as you. Although from what I hear, porn isn't the best way to determine sexuality.
I can't tell you if you're bi or gay, but I can tell you that your chances of losing your erection will increase if you worry about it. Try to put what happened before out of your head, relax, and go with the flow.
Porn really isn't the best way to find that out. Really you just have to explore for a bit and find out more about yourself in the process. Something like this can't be determined overnight.
I would say if you prefered women And Occasionally liked men you could be bicurious. However Im Guessing Yah Only Young so chill just be you, what Ever That May Be
I don't think porn has anything to do with it. I personally think you can still be straight but get off to thoughts of men. Being gay or bisexual is more so having feelings/loving someone of the same sex. You're getting more pleasure out of men rather than having feelings for them.. right?
I don't think it's a real issue. You're still figuring yourself out and there's nothing wrong with that. I've been going back and forth between thinking I'm lesbian or bi, but I'm learning that labels don't mean much...it's about what I feel. If you are concerned about not being able to get hard with girls, there's really only one way to find out because pron doesn't really count or determine your orientation, you know? Either way, good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for.
Yeah i dont feel feelings towards any guys just more attracted to them then i used to be but its not a whole lot different like i still look at girls in public as what i desire and guys just seem more appealing then they used to but just when im thinking about it, if a girl still never fails to get me goin in person then does it seem like i could just randomly go soft once they start doing stuff to me im super new and clueless about all of this ahaha im only in grade 9 and im one of the more "popular" guys in my grade you could say so im kind of pressured into getting stuff done with girls early on you know or else i would seem like an idiot reading back i did focus too much on porn in my paragraph but i cant figure out if it would make sense for me to go soft if i still get hard easily by the slightest teasing from the girl im kinda hitting up right now or would that be common
I don't think you should be pressured into doing anything. Especially at your age. I know peer pressure is really all around you, but you gotta try and not to give into that. At your age I think you're also still discovering yourself. Maybe try something with a guy? See how that goes. Perhaps you're just curious. I think the first time I ever saw gay porn was when I was 13-14? Middle school, I know. But I also had that feeling inside that I was attracted to men, it just took me a long time to realize that I was gay. I've only dated and had sex with women up until now. So you're just gonna have to experiment to figure it out. Editing for a little add-on. Like others have said, I've gone back and forth from trying to be straight (which was bs. I don't know why I ever pretended) to thinking I'm gay/bi/etc. You just have to go with what your heart and mind tell you.
Hahah thanks for the advice im definitely nowhere near actually trying something with a guy though, i wanna try something with a girl anyway so i have a bit more closure on if im gay or bi ya know or at least just attempt it to see how i feel about it even if it does work of im not really feelin it then thatll be some useful information
