Ok, i know i am a lesbian, i have both a sexual interest and emotional connection with girls, but i also have the emotional connection with some guys (OK that might be a stretch) but i have no interest in a...shiver...penis...urgh or men in general,I'm somewhat phobic of them. My friend thinks I'm bi but as i said i don't have a sexual interest in them. Sigh, any ideas guys?
I think you shouldn't stress over whether you like guys or not. It definitely sounds like you don't like them sexually... There also may be a possibility that you like guys romantically / emotionally, even just to some small degree. Don't get hung up on labels. They fit many people, but they also don't fit many people. I can 100% call myself gay, because it's certainly more convenient than saying "Oh, well, I like guys sexually and physically and emotionally and romantically. I also don't feel that way for girls at all." Basically, don't worry about this. I don't know you, and only you know if this would be plausible or not, but if you sort of feel a connection to some guys, maybe one day you'll meet a cool guy who you'll end up liking a lot. It sounds pretty farfetched, and it probably is, but it sounds like there's a (small) possibility of that happening for you.
Maybe but its only with some guys that are my friends that i have a very small connection with and even then I am mostly volatile towards the male gender,My friends say that i can become quite hostile towards them, I haven't been treated well by males (that includes my family) quite honestly I'm surprised that they haven't figured out that I am gay by this point, one has but hey....
