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How do I stop these Bi-curious thoughts?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by littlemause, Apr 13, 2013.

  1. littlemause

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    They are driving me insane. Literally! I can't stop wondering what it would be like to be in a relationship with a women - kiss, hold, hug etc.. However I know this is just a fantasy because the reality does not appeal to me at all - I have no sexual attraction to women what so ever. Women do nothing for me! So how do I make it go away? It would make my life a lot easier.
     
  2. gibson234

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    Your thoughts come from your sub conscience you can't control them. You just have to accept them. Personally I had thoughts like these before I realized I was gay. I don't know how long you've been having these thoughts or how old you are but if I was you I would just take them as they come. There nothing wrong about bi-curious thoughts just relax and enjoy finding out who you are. You might be straight and just curious or you might be a lesbian or bi only you can find out.
     
  3. littlemause

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    I'm 25, I've been bi-curious since I was about 18. So for quite awhile, although I have been thinking about it much more as of late.
     
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    Why not try something out with a woman? I mean, I'm not talking about a full-on serious relationship, but something casual so you can know with a certain degree of certainty that you like/don't like/like the idea of being with women.
     
  5. muzzymcgee

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    i dont think you can stop them i think the harder you try the more you will think about it