I have a co worker that I work with who is high up in my job, and she has been flirtatious with me lately. I have noticed especially today that she has been sending obvious signals of attraction towards me, but she is 3 or 4 years older than I am. The reason why I am posting this is because I wanted some advice. Obviously I am not out of the closet yet, and have just recently figured out that I may be gay\gay leaning. I still think that she is an awesome person, but I don't want to tell her that I am gay. How can I do this in a friendly manner without saying , "I'm gay, sorry, please stop flirting with me." I admire woman, but I don't see myself having sex with them, so I wouldn't want a relationship with her. Thanks. :icon_sad:
It is a very small business and I am the editor, so I have to work with her all the time. I like her a lot as a friend and everything.. I wouldn't want to avoid her. :eusa_doh: