Is it weird that I dont find the idea of sex appealing? The only actions that I find "sexy" are those that are related to my fetish. Actually, I'm not concerned about not being normal, its just that not wanting sex could severely damage my chances of ever having a relationship, to add to the fact that I'm not the most attractive person, I am very picky about looks(yes, i understand that what's inside is what matters. But honestly, most guys dont turn me on, and I cant imagine waking up every morning next to someone who i didnt find attractive.), and i have several fetishes. What should I do? (BTW, I plan on having cosmetic surgery in the future, for various complicated reasons, including the fact that I believe strongly in morphological freedom.)
Took me a little while to find this article which I had seen yesterday by sheer luck. Guys on the 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms I've not actually fully read it because I didn't feel concerned, but perhaps you may be able to get something out of it.