Hi, Ok as you properly guessed I am confused about my sexuality. I'm 25 and have only ever had relationships with men. However over the past 6 months I have been questioning my sexuality. There has been a number of reasons for this. ). I have recently been dreaming about women, at timesi find my self flirting with females and finding them attractive. All my gay friends and work colleagues are convinced I am gay ( I have always denied this) I have no problem if I am gay it's just the confusion. When I think about it, I do find female attractive although cant see myself having a sexual relationship with females. However I have never really enjoyed sex with males. Im wondering if this is because I'm gay although I admit I have a low self esteem. I also still find males attractive. I properly watch more lesbian porn than I do straight. I have not discussed this with any of my friends as of yet and didn't know who else to discuss this with. Any advice or comments welcome thanks Xx
It takes a while to figure out your sexuality. It's not something you just wake up one morning and think "I'm gay." Being confused and trying to come to terms if you're straight or gay or bi, is one of the hardest things. It happens to a lot of people, and some people who are confused, are straight. All I can say is, to experiment. That's the only way I think is how you can tell. See what you like, who with etc. I don't mean go the whole way with a girl, but just try different stuff. If you have 1 crush on a girl, that also doesn't mean you are gay. It just means that you do like both, but guys a lot more. If you are having fantasies or dreams/getting turned on etc, then it could be likely you do like girls. But it doesn't matter who you are into, as long as you are happy. Feel free to message me anytime
