My sexuality has always confused me. I was originally going to ignore a label and just live but I'm curious to know what this would be. My feeling towards women are pretty basic. I am turned on by almost any woman out there, I do have an emotional connection with women but for some reason it's always lacking in that respect. Sex is great, but I get bored easily. Especially lacking the penis part, thats a big emotional thing for me. My feelings towards men are more perplexing, its not necessarily the way he looks, but more of his personality, his smell, how he moves etc. Seems like I go this way with men: Physical attraction, then emotional and then sexual. I need to feel connected to him in order to be in a relationship. I'm not really turned on by a nude man. It's more him desiring me, how sexy he looks in his suit that gets me aroused. So what would this be?
If I were you, I wouldn't call it anything. It sounds like you have had sex with both men and women and generally prefer men. No? I mean you get turned on by women by ultimately prefer men. (Actually, you sound a lot like me, now that I think of it. LOL)
Hey Bill, Yes, you're right I do prefer men mostly because of the emotional connection part. I was just wondering because I wanted to "come out" to my husband, just in case he sees me checking out a woman one day lol. I also want to let him know cause I feel a bit guilty when a woman turns me on and we have sex. And after 10 years, I really want to change things up a bit with role-play, porn etc.
