I'm not entirely sure if I'm gay or bisexual. I've always seen the male and female bodies as beautiful and works of art, and when I see a beautiful woman or a hot guy, I like what I see. I watched the British documentary "A Girl's Guide to 21st Century Sex" in which two pornstars demonstrated different positions between a man and a woman, and yeah, I got turned on and thought it was erotic. Yet in my life, I seem to mainly only find men attractive. :help:
Keep in mind anything sexual, such as porn, can turn you on regardless of orientation. I am gay and yet at one point in time I found lesbian porn somewhat erotic. I am not sexually attracted to women or their bodies, but the sex acts themselves were fairly erotic. In real life, if you're finding yourself staring at men and having sexual fantasies of them and NOT women, then you are most likely gay. Anyone, gay/straight/bi, can notice, admire, and appreciate a good looking person regardless of gender. However, sexual orientation is more of a deep rooted sexual desire for members of one or both genders. It's more than simply admiration. I can notice good looking females but it stops there. With guys, it goes further. I imagine myself wanting to get closer to them and at times can get graphic lol. Do you relate to that?
Yeah, I can understand that. Is it normal to want to at least experience heterosexual sex once just to say I've done it. I may be gay, but the vagina looks kind of enticing.
It is normal to be curious and wanting to experiment. It probably will not change the situation though if you're gay. You will realize you were gay going into it and gay after it. If you are finding female parts sexually exciting, then perhaps bi would be a better label.
