Uhm, Hi. I'm new here and I've been confused about my sexual orientation. I'm 15 and I have a boyfriend and I always thought about it but I guess I was in denial all the time. I like him, a lot. Like, I care about him but I feel like he's attracted to me in a way and I just don't feel the same thing about him, or any other boys. I mean, I always look at one boy and I say "Oh, he's cute" or "He's handsome" but I never look to one boy and say "He's hot" and I never felt comfortable whenever my friends started to talk about boys and sex or anything related to it. I could laugh about a joke and these things but anyway. And then i thought that maybe I like girls but again, I never felt attracted to girls. But I always was confused in why I always pay more attention to a female character in a movie and sometimes I caught myself staring to some girl, but when it comes to be attracted I'm not, and all of this is causing me to just be distant from everyone I know and I just don't feel comfortable anymore around my boyfriend I thought maybe someone could help me or something. Thankss
Welcome to Empty Closets! ^_^ You are still pretty young so it's fine to not be sure (some people are never sure and that's fine as well). Could you ever see yourself in a long-term relationship with a girl? How about a boy? That's the key I think.
Thanks and I really don't know. Well, I have been dating this guy for kinda of a long time lol. But it's just that he was really sweet to me when nobody was but after a while something seemed a bit off about it to me, but I always ignored it. And now I just don't feel the same and I don't know what to do. And when I think about being in a relationship with a girl, I just think that if I like her and she likes me I wouldn't have a problem with it, but I'm so confused
You might have to eventually break-up with this boy, but don't think about that right now. It seems like you have no problem with the idea of like girls so that's a start! *hugs*
