I'm bi, I've never kissed a guy but I have kissed a girl before but it wasn't great and I didn't feel anything. I defiantly am attracted to guys maybe a little more than girls. I guess a reason why I've never done anything with a guy is because I'm shy and don't know to meet people. I was wondering if someone could help me, how did u know u were attracted to a gender and how did u meet someone. I'm still a little confused what label I am but for now it's bi. I want to pursue my feelings for guys to see what there.
In my case, growing up I was mostly attracted to females emotionally, and males sexually. The image of my ideal relationship was initially with the girl I was in love with, however I could never really imagine myself having sex with her (or any other girl). With males, I was getting aroused by good-looking guys, but there was no emotion attached. I "knew" I was attracted to both genders in those ways because those were the only thoughts I had with regards to them. That changed gradually however and now I'm strictly attracted to males both emotionally and sexually. As far as meeting someone, I wish I had more experience to answer you. :lol: