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Am I gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by BJHoffman, Jun 7, 2013.

  1. BJHoffman

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    So it all began when I like wanted to become a cheerleader. I know obviously wanting to become a cheerleader doesn't make you gay. But It got me thinking. I always wanted to wear the cute outfit and stuff. I just kept getting the urges to flirt with guys. And I have, but never done anything with them. I get turned on when flirting with them. But never can picture myself actually doing stuff with them. Is this just like a fantasy? I don't get turned on like looking at other guys, just when flirting. I'm just a little confused
     
  2. wrhla

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    Well, it's a fantasy, but what kind of fantasy? Fantasies don't come out of thin air.
     
  3. BJHoffman

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    I'm not sure. Every time I flirt with a GUY. I get turned on. But I don't watch gay porn, and I don't see myself having sex with them