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I don't know what I am any more

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by confused1994, Jun 11, 2013.

  1. confused1994

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    Hi there, I am a typical 18 nearly 19 year old girl! BUT their is one difference is I am not sure if I am streight :confused: I would say I have has my share of "boyfriends" but I have recently been questioning my sexuality :frowning2: can some one help me understand my feelings? :help: any advice will be helpful :frowning2:
     
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    well, You have to give us some details,

    How do you feel about girls romantically/sexually?
    Have you had any crushes on girls?

    ask yourself the same question about guys.
     
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    Well I have had feelings for girls but thought it may have been a fase and I get a tungly feeling when I see one particular girl but I don't know. I don't fell half of these feelings with guys :confused:
     
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    well, I dont remember feeling that tingly feeling with guys....I mean, I always put this note in my head that maybe i did but i can't remember.

    I remember my crushes on girls and getting that "feeling" but i didn't think much of it until now.

    well if you are sexually/romantically attracted to girls and guys, you could be bisexual but I can't tell you what your sexuality, only you can. One lesson, I learned.

    The way i see it is look who you would want to marry and have a future with more.
    I think, that might help
     
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    Oh, the phase. I feel like about ninety percent of the girls' posts I've seen on here have brought up the phase... I think I remember Flyalone posting about it, ha, and it's been a recurring fear of mine, too. So if you're going through a phase, you're in good company. Try not to worry about the phase thing - if it's a phase, literally all you can do is wait it out. I spent a night trying to get myself to snap out of my "phase," and I just woke up the next morning gayer than ever.

    You say you have a tingly feeling for one particular girl... Has this happened with any other girls, or just this one?
     
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    Thanks, I wish there was just a wee thing like a switch so u could just put it to the right setting :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: right now my switch seems to be stuck in the middle but possibly leaning more to the girls? Just because I seem to have more feelings for them and one girl I know does keep asking if I am and she will jokingly say that I am and we have a joke about it but I just can't seem to find the answer, :confused:
     
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    Yeah, this.
     
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    And no just this one girl who is gay but unfortunatly has a girlfriend hmm :confused:
     
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    Ugh, sadly...I've dealt with that. it sucks.
    I think You should go with the flow....God, Im such a hypocrite but i guess, i'ved learned.....You can explore if you want. like explore your feelings and see where they take you.