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Trying to figure out who I am

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by livinganew, Jun 14, 2013.

  1. livinganew

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    Hi Everyone.

    I've been questioning my sexuality.

    I've been into guys most of my life. And I've had a few intense sexual crushes in the past.

    However, I am diagnosed with OCD by a licensed therapist as well as GAD.
    I am obsessive.
    When someone questioned my sexuality, I began to question it as well.

    I've realized that I think I have a thing for topless women. And that's obviously not something a straight woman is into.

    And now I'm confused. I feel like because of this I must be a lesbian.

    I mean, I think other girls are pretty and all but I've never had a crush really.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
     
  2. MerBear

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    unless you are sexually/ romantically attracted to women....exclusively, I really wouldn't say your lesbian
     
  3. livinganew

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    I'm not really romantically attracted to other women.

    But what about this sexual thing for topless women situation?
     
  4. MerBear

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    well, are you sexually attracted to women? it doesn't have to be all women or topless women for that matter, i dont think.
     
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    im not sexually attracted to a women's body. like i can look at naked women and feel nothing. although, i prefer not to look at women's bodies.
     
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    well, i wouldn't look to much into then.
    You sound straight to me. I wouldn't put to much thought into unless you want a romantic relationship with a woman and your sexually attracted to them which you've made clear that your not
     
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    Thanks for the advice.

    So if I were a lesbian I would be sexually attracted to a naked woman in some way shape or form?
     
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    ya just like straight guys are obsessed with boobs