I remember a few weeks ago, seeing a girl and my first thoughts were: "I want her." I just remember wanting to touch her or hug her in some way. I didn't want to kiss her or anything. I tried to justify the feelings as admiration or something else, but I guess they weren't? Can anybody help me figure out what this was?
Well, your profile says you're lesbian, so that might have something to do with it… I guess I'm just confused with what you're asking. There are plenty of guys who are hot but don't seem romantically or sexually appealing to me.