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Some days I feel gay, others not so much

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by lawRAWR, Jun 18, 2013.

  1. lawRAWR

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    For example, one day I may feel no attraction to guys at all, then another day I will. However, it always seems as if I do have an attraction to girls, but with guys it changes all the time.

    Some may argue it's due to my age? I'm not so sure... :shrug: :help:
     
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    I understand what you mean. Except for me its different. I am always attracted to guys but sometimes very rarely, i think i am attracted to girls and others times i am not.
     
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    I am going through the exact same thing at the moment, sometimes I am positive I am gay and other time I start thinking about guys again, even though I could never really see myself in a permanent relashonship with them. It's all so confusing! :/
     
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    It changes for me, too. That's why I put "bisexual" because it's the closest label that fits me--even though the label suggests an equal attraction to both sexes. So I wouldn't say the not-knowing/changing is due to your age. Right now, I could see myself with either a man or a woman...but I'm leaning towards woman.
     
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    Sexuality and IMO bisexuality can be very fluid. I for example always feel attraction towards males, but towards females less often.
     
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    Very true. And, forgive me, but I have to ask: What is "IMO?" I'm a bit new to some of the lingo.
     
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    IMO means 'In My Opinion'.
     
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    I think that's probably pretty normal. Sexuality is fluid, so you might be bisexual but leaning more toward gay, and the amount you feel attracted to each gender might vary day to day and that's okay. For instance, for me, I am always attracted to my fiancee who is a female, and I am often attracted to other females, but some days I find men attractive as well. Other days, I can't remember what it is I every found attractive about men, and I think that's fine. I don't like to give myself a hard and fast label because I think it IS very fluid, and you may find that is true for you too.