So I'm married, wife and I have talked about me possibly being Bi and she's cool with that! But I really want to know what I am! I've been dating girls since 15 and I'm older now, all relationships have been amazing 1 girl over 4 years and always wanted her sexually and I've slept with lots of women at least 30+ and loved it all still fet turned on by thinking about the past. I watch Gay/bi porn sometimes cause it turns me on. I don't find guys attractive and I could never do anything with one. But I do like watching m on m porn sometimes cause it turns me on more. But I prefer Bi cause I pay attention to the girl.... I honestly feel like I'm getting turned on more by bi porn now then straight porn though, but a month ago all I wanted was women!!!!! Haha I'm getting so confused, so I think I'm Bi what about you all???
I saw this gif of two dudes and thought it was hot. But I know I am a lesbian. Sometimes sexual things turn us on simply because they are sexual. Have you ever been walking someplace and saw a guy and thought, wow I'd really like to have sex with him...mess around...anything like that? You may be turned on by watching the penetration and not necessarily then men.
Actually I have never walked by a guy and thought that and I do not check guys out, but I have however imagined being with guys while doing sexual things. It's very weird, the odd thing is one week I think about guys and the next week women. It's only a sexual thing though, I've never thought about dating a guy etc...I don't even check guys out when I go out. I honestly could say I could have a threesome with a guy and girl and give or receive oral from a guy, I would just have to have a women involved. The worst part is the confusion...... This has been going on since I was 19 now I'm quite a bit older, I think I just like certain sexual things with guys that really turn me on. Like for instance I could imagine myself making out with a girl while getting oral from a guy, I could never kiss a guy. Lol it doesn't bother me at all that I'm the way I am. I'm thinking I shouldn't even put a label on myself, I just like what I like haha... The problem is I just can't come to terms with keeping this a secret, it's very hard to not tell anyone but my wife.
Lesbianism is pretty interesting to me, and I don't know why, but I can't sleep with women, oddly enough, and the thrill lasts all about 2 minutes (unless it's really wild stuff). :I I think it just might be an emotional connection w/ other homosexuals, in my case, because straight porn just doesn't do it for me.. So, in your case, i've got no idea, man! haha! It just sounds like some kind of an alpha-male thing, possibly? Perhaps you want to dominate other men?? I dunno. ---------- Post added 20th Jun 2013 at 12:11 PM ---------- Oh, and if you're not attracted to men, it's a very good possibility that you're not bisexual. In fact, i'm pretty sure that's the entire basis behind it.
My brother started that way. He felt like it was only a sex thing and nothing emotional could happen. As he explored his feelings more and let himself go, he realized that he is in fact bi. He also realizes he would be happy in a relationship with a guy.
I think I might be in the same boat. I like having second with my wife, but I definitely see myself with an other man.
