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What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who...?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by staticdiscord, Jun 22, 2013.

  1. staticdiscord

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    You don't know anyone who is willing enough to experiment with you. What do you do? I'm tired of this uncertainty and I really want to know.
     
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    Re: What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who

    hello there! welcome :grin:

    well, you could try going to gay and lesbian bars, and then you can try settling in, flirting, or whatever you feel confortable in trying, there are also gay dating sites, but as with dating sites and the internet, its always a good idea to be careful with these
     
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    Re: What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who

    Gay and lesbian bars are probably the best bet. If you do find someone to experiment with and feel like going further, be sure to do it safely. :slight_smile:
     
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    Re: What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who

    Welp, how old are you? 'Cause I know I have the same problem, and I can't exactly go into bars to pick up women due to my age. I fooled around with porn some, and that was alright, I guess, but not exactly the real thing. If you're old enough, yeah, go with the bars. :slight_smile:
     
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    Re: What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who

    Well my friend let her Bi friend experiment with her (he's gay) because she has an implant in her arm which releases hormones to stop her from getting pregnant. She also is a wonderful friend and really attractive, he had sex with her (no condom) raw and finds out afterwards he is Gay.

    Don't know if any friends are that willing but I suppose they would need to be VERY close
     
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    Re: What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who

    I am having the same problem too, not quite old enough to go to a gay bar but even if I could get ID, I have told no-one so there is no-one to take with me even if I could... Stuck in a hole here! :bang: Did you try looking for an LGBT group/club in your area? It was suggested to me by another user.
     
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    Re: What if you're bicurious and you want to experiment but you don't know anyone who

    Ooh yeah, this is a good idea. Our school finally got a GSA set up, and through that I've met two girls who'd probably be down with experimenting with me if I was interested. :slight_smile: