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Need help with my mom..

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by thelesbian15, Apr 18, 2014.

  1. thelesbian15

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    Okay, so when i came out, my mom was extremely supportive and she loved my girlfriend and all that. Buut, when i started wanting to buy guys jeans and such at the store, she didnt like the idea to much. She actually hated it. She started calling me a stupid dyke and things like that. Obviously, that didnt make me feel very good, so i started wearing my girlyer clothes again. Basically, my question is, how can i convince her to let me wear what i want and not judge me..? :bang:
     
  2. drwinchester

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    Two questions: How old are you and what can she do to you if you don't give in?

    I'd say you've got 2 options. You either just wear what you like when she's not around or you go in and basically just ignore her and wear what you want.
     
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    Im 15 and Im not fully aware of what she can do to me.. And shes actually taken my guy clothes and donated them behind my back.
     
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    Wow, she went all batshit crazy for buying guys jeans.

    Are there any part time jobs you can find at 15 years old, just to save a bit of money away?
     
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    Ive got a job. but anytime i buy something for myself she takes it and does something to it.:***:
     
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    Save it away, so if need be, it can go towards moving out ASAP. :slight_smile:

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    Also, are you planning to go to college?
     
  7. anonym

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    Buy stuff, hide it, take it with you if you're going to stay over at a friends, wear it, change before you get home. Your mum will be non the wiser :grin:
     
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    Wow at 15 you should be able to wear what you like? Sorry your mum is being like this, it must be very confusing for you. On one hand she accepted you coming out but her behaviour is like she hasn't.