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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Socrates37, Jul 25, 2014.

  1. Socrates37

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    Hi to all.. Im a bi gay guy. First time posting anywhere on forums about this topic.
    Not many people that know me really know me.

    I have a Calling. I am to be with another man.
    I can no longer afford to be in denial. This is what I know.
    And I accept me for that now.

    I am in love with another man currently. He doesnt know that I am.
    I welcome questions from you veterans. I want to share more.
    Looking forward to hear from you. :lol:

    Thanks.
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave. It's a pleasure to meet you! Please feel free to ask questions and give commentary as they are both highly valued here on this site . :slight_smile:


    1. Cool, another Canadian! :grin: 2. I like your username!!
     
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    Hey Socrates37, welcome to EC!

    You have come to the right place to explore this. You love someone, a man, what do you know about him? Is he bi or gay?

    Do you plan on doing anything about this feeling?

    One should think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought...what action will you take?
     
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    Welcome fellow Ontarian :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome! It's great that you have finally accepted who you really are.
     
  6. C06122014

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    Hey and welcome to EC I hope you enjoy your time here and that you make new friends will both advice and support you in your efforts to come to terms with your sexual orientation I also hope that you were able to share your experiences both past and future with this wonderful community and it's equally amazing members!

    Good luck :slight_smile:
    Also if you need a friend don't hesitate to contact me :slight_smile:
     
  7. Socrates37

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    Thanks, Jose.? I will in time.

    ---------- Post added 25th Jul 2014 at 07:15 PM ----------

    Yes I know him. Yes I plan to tell him i have crush on him. We are acquainted through work.
    The problem is he is with a woman.. And Im not quite sure if hes 100% straight either. Thats a big reason why im on this forum.
    I will put my thoughts together and tell you more soon.

    Thanks
     
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    Hi I'm Jake Welcome to E.C. !
     
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    A fellow Canadian! Hi!
     
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    :welcome: to EC!!!

    In my mind, it frankly doesn't matter if he's 100% straight or not - he's with another partner and you shouldn't expect him (even if he is bi) to just drop her like a bad habit and come over to you - I think that you're setting yourself up for some shattered expectations if that's the thinking that you're going through right now.

    Also, I'd think through how telling him about your feelings, even if he's not 100% straight, impacts your relationship with him. You say that he's a colleague at work, does he have the ability to make your life there miserable if the feelings are not reciprocated?

    I'm not trying to discourage you here, but rather to encourage you to think about some of these topics, and make your own decisions as to the best course of action.
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! I could quote what RainbowMan said, but there's no point. He pretty much said all there is to say.

    Lots of love,
    Andy
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    Welcome!
     
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    Salutations new friend!
     
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    "Good things grow in Ontario."

    That's the saying, right? Welcome to EC! :welcome:
     
  18. Socrates37

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    Hey RainbowMan,

    No I do not have any expectations from him at this point. I just trust him enough now to tell him how I feel about him. And it does hurt.. Just like to take a risk and get my feelings off my chest.

    No, and im not worried about him causing me grief at work. Although, possibility exists none the less.

    I will follow up with, if you guys like to know. Thanks for the advice.
    Glad to be here. :smilewave
     
  19. Socrates37

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    Funny, BelleFromHell.. And thats the right saying, yes. You should really try Ontario peaches!
    The juiciest on this Continent!
    :badgrin::lol: