What do you do when the opposite sex is interested?

If I'm interested I will try to express that interest through conversation.
I absolutely suck at flirting due to being introvert and having virtually no experience.
So far though I haven't had many women express such an interest in me tough.

 

I would, if I'm interested, try to know that person better. Who knows what comes after that. :icon_bigg

Doesn't matter to me whether it's a girl or a boy. :lol:

 

LOL. I do the same It's put me in a few awkward situations, but relatively easily, especially since I am oblivious a lot of the time :lol:

 

"Wow, I'm totally flattered, but I'm also totally gay. Thanks though."

Lex

 

If they're someone I'd date, I'd go for it. I go for guys and girls (generally speaking, I'll date other genders as well).

 

As much as I hate to admit it, I get uncomfortable and avoid the person or end things with them. I hate doing this, but I feel unsafe around most of the straight guys I know since they're forceful and bitch about the friendzone.

 

@ Soul catcher

I think you need to add that you have a pretty aggressive, jealous, butch 'boyfriend

I'm not into butch women but I guess this could work .

 

When the opposite sex is interested in me I'm usually at a bar with some friends and just wanting to have drinks and not socialize with anyone else and when some creeper (they always seem to b creepy the ones that hit on me and a lot older) I don't say much to them because they make me very uncomfortable. But when I'm not at a bar and someone Is interested I kinda go with the conversation but don't act too interested so I might use the word "dude" mayb haha

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I might have to use this one one day

 

I'm really flattered until they start making me uncomfortable with their excessive flirting. I must not look gay enough because this random dude in my class started making conversation with me in the hall today. I wouldn't think anything of it, but I've also caught him staring at me in class. To make it worse, he sits next to this kid who is always asking questions, so I'm often looking in that direction when a question is asked. He probably thinks I'm looking at him back. :bang: The more attractive the guy, the more flattered I am. This dude is just ugz.

 

I've never had anyone interested in me, so its not something I've had to deal with LOL
But by thought: it'd all depend on the person & how I felt... like if I was interested, I might try to show interest back.

 

Well, it's always been awkward for me as I was always afraid I might accidentally out myself in front of someone I know, so I just freeze up in awkward silence and avoid eye contact or look for an escape. I've encountered women though that probably wouldn't take no for an answer anyways.

 

I just say thank you I really appreciate the compliment but I'm gay and I have a girlfriend

 

Your brave , I don't have the courage to say that yet , outside of a gay bar .

 

Since I am still married to her, I bonk her if she is in the mood for it. Probably time for a update post about what is going on with me, if I can figure it out myself; sometimes life is stranger than fiction.

 

How do you even manage to keep your dick up for that
If it were me I would do a whole no sex rule .

 

I be like "girl, you ain't gettin' this".

 

Sexuality is more complicated than simple gay-straight for some of us. I am married and enjoy having sex with my wife. I am also attracted to some men, but I don't have sex with them because I am married to my wife. She knows how I am and wants me to be happy; I want her to be happy too. I can't change my attractions, but I can control my behavior, and I limit myself to non-sexual interactions with gay male friends. Works for us, so far.

As to your question, it keeps itself up when operated in the usual manner; it's not rocket science; more like a piston in a single-cylinder lawnmower engine. :dry:

Keep in mind that I will be 69 years old in a few months. Think of it like the dancing bear example. The amazing thing is not that the bear can't dance a minute waltz; the amazing thing is that the bear dances at all. :eusa_danc

 

I'd be like yeah baby yah like what ya see, come get ya some!