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What do u find attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by luckrunningout7, Dec 20, 2014.

  1. Nekoko

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    Intelect
    Compassion
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    Deviousness

    Consideration
    Openness
    Flattery
    Faithfulness (not talking about "cheating")
    Energy
    Eccentricity

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    Full lips, bubble butts, big hands and big feet, red hair, black hair, really pale skin, really dark skin, green, hazel, and brown eyes, tall guys that are taller than me. Idk lots of things. A lot of guys I'm physically attracted to don't even fit into any of the above.

    As far as the inside goes, I just like guys who are decent beings with whom I can carry a conversation with. I like weirdness, but not creepy weirdness. Being able to be comfortably silent with him is also nice. Treats me well and with the utmost respect. Etc etc etc.
     
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    I think I am more attracted to personality more than anything. But I tend to like shorter guys that aren't too skinny but not overweight either. I am sucker for blond hair and blue eyes. I think braces can be cute too. I also don't like a ton of body hair. Accents are always a turn on for me. Oh this is fun...
     
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    long black hair
    blue eyes
    glasses
    about my height
    32Cs
     
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    Haha, this is always a good topic that makes me smile:


    manly/not too feminine
    clear pale skin
    nice smile
    nice bum
    someone who makes me laugh
    just generally quite sweet....gentlemanly...warm
     
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    weird
    humor
    intelligence
    eyes
    taller than me
    kinda hairy legs
    creativity
    style

    They have to be crazy
     
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    It's kind of hard for me to put out physical characteristics because it seems like every guy I've been really attracted to (beyond physical) has looked completely different, but I guess this is my ideal.

    • Smaller end of the spectrum (not necessarily in terms of height, but not super bulky)
    • Either really short, neat hair or medium-length and kind of floppy. Blonde is a bonus.
    • Blue eyes, though I really don't care much about that
    • A lot of confidence to go along with a little bit of shyness. I don't think the two are necessarily exclusive.
    • Intelligence
    • Someone who isn't afraid to speak his mind and stick with opinions that may be unpopular
    • Someone who is willing to challenge his own opinions and genuinely considers other people's point-of-view
    • Someone who is compassionate and never tries to treat others poorly
    • Creative skills - singing/music, drawing, writing
    • Articulate
    • Someone who is honest and willing to talk through anything
    • A killer smile and a sexy laugh
     
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    I love booty.... and legs... and cute faces. And stubble. And dark hair. And oddly enough sometimes I get into people's eyebrows.

    Those are usually things I like. But.. I tend to fluctuate and sometimes I become all about the blonde hair blue eyed thing.

    I also like people with a trace of awkward. I love people I can be weird around.
     
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    Blonde hair
    Black hair
    Sometimes a little facial hair
    Blue eyes
    Muscles (durr! xD)
    Glasses
    Intelligence
    Kindness
    Shyness
    Similar age
    Hugs! (Love them!)
    Openness
    Trustworthyness
    Morality
    Deep thinking
    Commitment
    Casual dress
    Formal dress!
    Vulnerability
    Masculinity (I guess...)

    Quite a few.
     
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    I'm attracted to people who have Intelligence, compassion, emotions, and respects me. As for physical attractiveness, not much, just a thin body and long hair on women, and a thin body and shorter hair on men is what I find attractive. But these things aren't really sexy to me. I find these features attractive, but they don't really make me want to have sex with the person who has these characteristics.
     
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    Cute guys :grin:. I'm too shy to say exactly what I like :lol:
     
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    Well, my fantasy man would be:

    Over 6 feet tall.
    Very fashionable.
    Very considerate, understanding, and patient.
    VERY intelligent.
    Knows how to handle my moods, and understands how I think and process.
    Jet black hair.
    Royal blue eyes.
    Black goatee.
    Hairy chest, legs, and butt.
    A decent shape, unlike me.
    Intuitive.
    Self controlled, self disciplined.


    Here are a some "types" I like. Although they don't need to be hunky, but thats about all you can find online.

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    XD no ur fine. Thats what I mean't ^_^
     
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    I like bubbly girls who are not afraid to be awkward and weird. Girls who have alternative styles, like tattoos and having their own styles. I guess I like girls that have the personality of the girl next door as well. Girls who are too into themselves or are overly confident are annoying. Be your biggest advocate, not your biggest fan.
     
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    Wow I didnt expect there to be so many replies. I also wanted to say I listed more of "outside" qualities. But that's not all I look for. Here a few personality traits I find attractive. Not techniquely all in one person thou.
    Mysterious. I think its because I cant understand what hes thinking and I usually spend the whole day thinking about him. Its also terrible cuz I lose focus.
    A bit nerdy- I love hearing them go on and on about their passions as I stare at their beautiful face
    Funny/sense of humor- cuz seriously, I love to hear laughing.
    Accepting- I like guys who dont make fun of others because their different. Plus its really cute 2 wen their nice and arent short tempered.
    Well thats just a few. I just didn't want you all to think I only care about the looks.
     
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    I love ice blue eyes for one :slight_smile:
    I don't have a preference in terms of height, I like guys who are taller than me but I also like guys who are shorter than me
    I love someone who is confident, and has a positive outlook on life :slight_smile:
    Someone who plays an instrument
    I like to read, and discuss books haha so that's a big thing
    And I have to trust this person, I can't not share with them everything in feeling, I usually a go get it guy but I need someone who will make me feel good when I need it. Someone who can put a Smile on my face, which really isn't hard haha so yea, I don't ask for much but I don't want a total jerk…I don't want him to feel like I need "fixing" or Vice versa, because I shouldn't feel he's broken
     
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    Kaiser, honey. They asked "What do you find attractive?" not "How can I make old spinster out of myself?". :grin:(*hug*)
     
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    Beautiful eyes
    Hairy hands
    Facial hair
    Muscle/slightly stocky build
    Humble
    Intelligent
    Considerate
     
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    Girls:-
    Blonde hair
    Pretty eyes
    Sense of humour

    Guys:-
    Dark hair
    Piercings
    Intelligence

    But there are a lot of exeptions :wink:
     
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    Awesome hair.
    Intelligent.
    Able to hold their own in an argument.
    Open mind.
    Funny.
    Independent.
    Unusual
    Interesting.
    Authenticity.
    Geeky.
    Huggy.
    Able to put up with me.
    Weirdness.
    Not Shallow.
    Originality.
    Logical.
    Deep thinking.
    Trustworthy.
    Openness.
    Someone who isn't afraid to speak his mind and stick with opinions that may be unpopular.
    Someone who is willing to challenge his own opinions and genuinely considers other people's point-of-view.
    Creative.
    Eccentricity.
     
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