Is Bisexuality in men really possible? I don't like it :/

ellyy · Jan 30, 2015

Maybe you are romantically attracted to guys as well but you just don't see it yet? As you get more used to your attraction to guys and meet new people it might start to unravel.
But why do you say that you have no romantic attraction to guys? Does the conclusion come from your mind alone or real life experiences?

biAnnika · Jan 30, 2015

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Thank you to all that have replied so far. The reason I asked if it was truly possible because of the so little claims of bisexual men, rarely do I ever here a guy say he's bisexual or here of one, whenever I hear "bisexual" it's usually always attached to a female, in which i've heard they happen to be more sexually fluid than men, though I don't know much about all of that.
It puzzles me because I can't imagine dating someone, and not eventually having sex, and them staying with me after the fact. While I do find women sexually attractive, it's not near as strong as my attraction to men are. It's like how do I go about finding a potential partner in the future if she can't turn me on like a guy can? Maybe I should just try guys? *sigh* The 50/50 just doesn't make me comfortable I guess, I don't see how that can work. It's just way too tough to grasp and deal with. It's as if two people are pulling your arms in opposite directions, because both won't do, maybe for others, but not for you.
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I am a member on a site specifically for bisexuals...you will be interested to hear that the number of bisexual men on that site *greatly* exceeds the number of bisexual women there. I'm not sure if the balance is the same on this site, but if you look about, there are plenty of bisexual men here as well.

I do understand the concern with not being satisfied with any one person. I thought I was for many years (over 20)...but tides are shifting...as they do for many people. But there is no law saying that you have to constrain yourself to a monogamous relationship either...or to one monogamous relationship for the rest of your life. Lots of options out there.

Chromedome · Feb 1, 2015

rich96 said: ↑

Thank you to all that have replied so far. The reason I asked if it was truly possible because of the so little claims of bisexual men, rarely do I ever here a guy say he's bisexual or here of one, whenever I hear "bisexual" it's usually always attached to a female, in which i've heard they happen to be more sexually fluid than men, though I don't know much about all of that.
It puzzles me because I can't imagine dating someone, and not eventually having sex, and them staying with me after the fact. While I do find women sexually attractive, it's not near as strong as my attraction to men are. It's like how do I go about finding a potential partner in the future if she can't turn me on like a guy can? Maybe I should just try guys? *sigh* The 50/50 just doesn't make me comfortable I guess, I don't see how that can work. It's just way too tough to grasp and deal with. It's as if two people are pulling your arms in opposite directions, because both won't do, maybe for others, but not for you.
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Just try a guy. You don't have to be in a perfect relationship and you can't date everyone at the same time.

antibinary · Feb 1, 2015

Bisexuality in men is possible.

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