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Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by The Virgo, Dec 19, 2014.

  1. Ashleigh16

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    I'm kind of interested in dominance and submission. It's really embarrassing to admit but the idea of being sexually kind of well I like it
     
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    clothes I find a huge turn on. Skirts, shorts, undies etc I love them all
     
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    I'm versatile, as is my partner. It's really great and pretty fun, especially when there is a big power switch in sessions. Aftercare is the best part though :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah, I like being blindfolded and hit gently(no mark) with a belt. My bf seems fascinated with whipped cream. Ironically, my fwb back in the day was too.
     
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    aftercare sounds like the best thing ever in all honesty
     
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    It is. For us, it's a mixture of forehead kisses, cuddling, and usually soothing music or cartoons. Anything and everything goes.
     
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    I don't have a sexual fetish, but I do like legs. If your legs are showing, they are the first thing I notice. If I stumble across a picture or a part in a show and I see some nice legs, they make me happy. Not sexually, just happy in general? haa
     
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    Semi-skinny guys and slightly chunky girls. I kinda find it hot when a guy blows a load
     
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    I feel so alone. I never find anybody who is turned on by blood.
     
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    :frowning2: (*hug*) I think people are just worried it will hurt.

    I hope you'll find someone, sweetie...
     
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    what are furrys ??

    I have a woman's pink nightie and under wear that I like to wear around the house
    as I live alone..
    I'd really like to buy more undewear and bras but no idea on sizes ..

    I really love being spanked when making out or making love!

    but I am embarrassed and ashamed about my next one.

    I'm on some tablets for certain health reasons and every once in a while
    its caught me out , I'd be driving home and I'd feel all of a sudden need to go , not
    just pee but also poop... a couple of times I have been on the way home or out
    and its just happened while driving ! all through my jeans and underwear !!
    I get really up set when I get home and have to clean myself off.

    but heres the thing in the privacy of my own home I'll sometimes give myself an enema
    and do the same thing, but not in my car ...


    is that a fetish ?
     
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    I like the idea of blood play. We can be blood buddies! ^^
     
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    I actually kind of wonder if anyone else is into "pet play"? x.x I feel embarrassed asking that but oh well! Anyone who doesn't know, it's sort of a "sub" genre of bdsm, (hehe puns!) that mostly involves collars leashes and domination~! Is anyone else into that? Also if anyone has a question about it feel free to ask!
     
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    Thanks. It's not so much that I feel I need to find somebody to do it with, but mostly that I never even hear of others having the fetish. Whenever somebody is asked it's just BDSM this and spanking that. I never hear "yeah, I just go batshit crazy when I see blood."

    Yay! Blood buddies!

    ---------- Post added 27th May 2015 at 08:11 PM ----------

    I suppose I could say I'm into that.
     
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    Eh, I'd try it. Anything where I am submissive is pretty good for me. Or at least in my head. I mean, I am not so attracted to the pet theme, but the idea of being treated like an animal is pretty good. Hehe, this is embarrassing. :icon_redf I am way too open on this website.
     
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    How did you go about buying the women's underwear and nightie? I tried some of my mom's underwear on before it went to Salvation Army(she stored the box in my room). I admit that I kind of liked it.

    I like giving myself an enema. Bought a $4 little bulb off a popular marketplace site. It clears things out. I just don't do it all the time.
     
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    I love blood in a sexual way. I actually have a picture of me with some blood but I always thought it wasn't appropriate to upload to my albums here so I never have. I don't know what it is about it. Usually when not related to sex, blood makes me squeemish!

    Does anyone here have a smoking fetish? I have known I have for a long time but it seems pretty out there and I've never really discussed it too much. A small bit with my roommate maybe. I just love the way it smells, the way smoke clings to clothes and my fingers. The act of smoking is very sexy as well. Just everything to do with it, ugh!

    I'm also a bit into pet play. I have very little experience with it but I do own a few toys related to that sort of thing.
     
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    about blood i like it too but not the real one like maybe in resident evil and horror games i used to love make the guys die and see them suffer and blood covering them it used to turn me on and i used to masturbate on horror scenes with guys dying and filled with blood or burned etc.....i always find it weird and i was a kid back then so i never did it again i have so many weird fetishes that i would never mention or even try to remember lol
     
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    It's not so much drawing blood for me, but rather the blood itself. Spatter specifically. Makes me wish there were more games with permanent gore enabled like in Dragon Age or Drakengard 3 where you basically spend half the game looking like this.
     
  20. Miko

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    I find blood kinda attractive, although usually in small doses. An example is if it's dripping from my mouth or some such. I tend to avoid doing it though because well, scarring and after-pain.

    I'm into BDSM, I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my girlfriend, she's a Domme/my Owner, I'm her sub/slave. We do stuff ranging from 'sessions' where she'll hurt me, throw me around etc etc to it actually being an important part of our life. My bipolar makes me spend money like crazy when I'm manic, her being in charge means our bank doesn't break!

    I also tend to do most of the cooking, cleaning and such, so I guess it's less of a fetish and more of a life style, there's still something thrilling about wearing a collar though. ^^