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What was your first gay experience like?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by jostle100, Aug 28, 2011.

  1. Ravienclaw

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    When I was like 8-12 years old, I had this female friend that I was SUPERRRRR close to. We would play games like we were a couple, and another one of my friends was our daughter.
    We started sleeping over at each others houses pretty much every weekend, and this one time we were talking about boys/dating and we decided if we wanted to be good kissers we better "practice."
    Eventually as we got a little bit older this "practicing" turned into full on, hot and heavy making out :redface: :lol:
    ohh, good times.
     
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    I was curious on what yaoi was.

    I searched it. Found it.

    And found that it was more than my eyes and brain looking at it.
     
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    Non-existent, but I've had some fun dreams.
     
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    Back in high school in the female dormitory, I was laying in bed with one of my friends after hours, lights where out. We where talking and one thing lead to another we started kissing. I was scared of going any further because I was afraid of getting caught. But it was a great experience.
     
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    it wasn't full sex just oral and stuff was with a guy who lived over the road both 15 years old it was nice.
     
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    About three years ago I talked to this guy online, he was older and married.. I don't remember exactly but around 60 or so. I had never done anything, and I was super nervous as well, and not ready for anything at all. Well we agreed to meet up, he picked my up after class and drove to this place on the outskirts of some forest. We talked a little and then he grabbed my head and kissed me. He kissed me all over my face and I remember distinctly that he breathed really loud into my ears and nibbled on my earlobes, which I didn't really enjoy.

    He took my hand and led it to his crotch and I played with it a little, and he was just busy rubbing my chest. He asked if I wanted to perform oral sex on him. In my head I was thinking both no and yes, but I decided to do it, since I had made him come all this way. It was a bit tricky as we were in his car. While I was doing what I was doing he was fingering me, I drew the line there, because I felt things were going a bit too fast for me, and we were in a public space as well. Luckily he respected that and didn't continue.

    Without warning he ejaculated, and I had no choice but to swallow, I just remember I was glad it wasn't so bad that I gagged.

    After that he kissed me some more....

    The worst part about this whole experience is that he offered me money afterward. About $60... I declined (because I don't want to feel like I'm a prostitute. He drove me home (well walking distance, I wasn't about to show him where I live), and he kissed me some more. I got out and walked home. When I got home I emptied my pockets, and he had managed to sneak the money into my jacket pocket somehow...
     
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    It was at a some kid's birthday party a long time ago. It was like 4am and all the other kids had fallen asleep except for me and "Jesse". It wasn't full-blown homo, but it was definitely way too touchey to be straight :grin: Hell, what do I know, maybe that's what heterosexual friends do.

    I haven't spoken to Jesse in over three years, but I think it would be interesting to find out what they identify their orientation as now.
     
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    Not sure. I'll let you know when it happens.
     
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    Bad French kissing and teeth banging. Of course back then, I thought it was fantastic!
     
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    Depends on meaning of first. First was a BJ on a "Joking Truth or Dare". The Dare was to kiss it responded to as I'll suck it! First penetration was overwhelming and memorable. It didn't last very long but continued and became a wonderful thing I will never forget!
     
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    My first gay experience was pretty good tbh. I'd always thought about it and fantasized about giving head, what cum would taste like and whether or not I'd like it. Anyway I never told anyone, continued dating women until at a party got talking to a guy around my age, bit heavier but decent looking. Talk went on to sex and he shared that he'd always wondered about being with a guy and we laughed about how we'd both been to scared to do anything about it. We went home together that night, started with kissing each other and I couldn't believe how good it felt the first time I felt my cock rubbing against his. I started sucking his dick, we 69'd each other and came together. We spent the night just experimenting with each other, I had anal sex with him and allowed him to do me too. That was the first time I had sex so many times in one night. Before I left his place we sucked each other one last time and swapped our cum. I never saw him after that but have continued have gay experiences.
     
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    Do you mean s*x or having intense feelings for someone of the same gender?
    I knew I was gay long before I finally pushed myself (and my shame) out of the way and had s*x with a girl. I met her online and we decided to go to the bar to loosen up first. We made out the entire night, then went back to my place. We got in bed and started touching on each other. Every stroke of her skin was sooo smooth and her lips were so soft! I was feeling her and it all felt so natural. Everything felt right. My hands automatically knew where to go and I felt so ALIVE. She was giving me h*** first for awhile. Then I jumped up and pushed her down on the bed and said, “My turn.” She was really surprised that I was so forward. Then I gave her h*** until she c***. Just getting her off made me feel amazingggg and turned me on more than any man EVER had.
    With guys, I thought I was just submissive. I had an attitude of “I’m here, so do what you want to me.” I was very disinterested in it. But with this girl (and other girls I was with afterwards,) I was wayyy more into it and participatory during s**. I had no idea that the way I was acting with guys was proof of my gayness/being a total lesbian.
     
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    I was only 6 years old so it was confusing to say the least. I had no idea what was even going on or that it was wrong.
     
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    OMG that all sounds amazing !
     
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    First time was a long time ago when I was 13, and it was somewhat coerced. Not full on forced but not exactly completely consensual, it was and still is weird and hard to explain. It was a little awkward and while not mind blowing it was good enough that I was open for more.
     
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    It was pretty much like MGMT's "Electric Feel". Frotting in underwear at 13. Pulses through my body. I had a FWB from 13 to 19, then we went separate ways. Good while it lasted.
     
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    Confusing, but eye-opening.
     
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    Freshman year I sucked off a guy in a hotel on a school trip and he sucked me, he tried to put it in me but at that age i had no idea about lube lol having only seen anal in porn
     
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    24 years old. Had a date with a rando I met on OKC. It escalated to awkward sex on the first date. I was practically shaking with how nervous I was... I'm so sorry random dude whose name I forgot. I would've ghosted me too after that.
     
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    Basically having a crush on a fictional character that was the same as my birth gender made me start questioning myself. That was partially what made me realize I wasn't straight.