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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Faazi, Jul 3, 2015.

  1. Faazi

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    Hi. I am a partly closeted, older muslim womyn and wanted to connect with others in a similar situation. I sometimes feel like I am the only one in my world (that is straight and very muslim). I made the choice to stay in this world as I need to be near my family, otherwise I feel quite lost. I did try living away from my family, and that did not work. So, I am just wondering if there are other older, muslim womyn who have made a similar choice and how do they deal with the loneliness ...
     
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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Faazi. I've only been here since this morning, and already feeling very comfortable. Amazing place, EC.... :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Faazi, and welcome. I just joined as well & everyone have been very nice here.
    I have made some choices based on my loyalties, and these choices have led to loneliness, so I can't really claim to have any cures at this point unfortunately.
    But I hope that you really enjoy your time here.
     
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    Thank you all :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Faazi,

    I'm in Africa too! :slight_smile: I'm not a muslim lady, but I am a later-in-life lesbian. Finally figuring things out at 32. Feel free to post on my wall if you want to chat :slight_smile:.
     
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    Hey FoxSong. Nice to meet you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello & welcome, Faazi. Hope you enjoy your time here & make many new friends.
     
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    Hi Faazi, Im in a similar situation and it's been bothering me for a few years till i made peace with it and balancing my identity with my belief.
    Wish you well
     
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    Hi and super welcome to EC! Glad to have you here! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello, and welcome!
     
  15. Faazi

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    Hi MsAnchor. I thought I was fine with it, but the loneliness makes it a new struggle all over a again every few years. Its getting more depressing as I get older.