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Finally did it

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by EWMK, Sep 4, 2015.

  1. EWMK

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    I missed the second chance to come out to my best friend but then I texted her and finally came out. This is how I did it:
    *****Messenger*****
    -Hey Linh, I want to talk but I think texting would be easier. First I'd to ask you one question "you are always my best friend even though anything happens?"
    - yep, even you are a criminal.
    -after reading this please delete it
    -ok
    -don't let anyone else see this, ok?
    -yep
    -I think you already knew it but now I officially speak it out. I have received a lot of advices and support, and now I'm ready to tell you: Yes. I'm gay.
    -I already knew it. Don't worry. I always respect you. You are my friend and I will do anything to protect my friend. Everything's gonna be alright.
    *****
    I started crying as soon as I read her words. But now I'm finally feeling free and comfortable
     
  2. doinitagain

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    Fantastic!!

    Congratulations! (!)
     
  3. Bee12

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    Yay! Congratulations! So happy for you! (!) It's great when you get a reaction like that.
     
  4. Riyuzaki

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    Congrats (*hug*)
     
  5. xxCHAOTIC

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    That first person and that first time you admit it to someone else (that you actually know) is so powerful. It took it a few days to hit me but the relief is almost overwhelming in and of itself!

    I'm happy you finally got your chance.
     
  6. guitar

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    Those are always the best responses: unconditional love :slight_smile: congrats & cheers to moving forward. :grin:
     
  7. Phioo

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    Oh hell yeah bitch!
    VICTORY!