A recent video on my feed discussed gender neutral bathrooms, and someone in the comments section claimed that "they" (I assume this means transgender people) want either to use the restroom they want, or for everyone to use gender-neutral bathrooms. I for one would like to see all 3. What about you lot? (Preferably answers from trans/gender-questioning people, or from those who know a trans relatives' opinion.)
All 3 I think. Even if you bring in a 'physical sex' argument, there should be 3 because intersex/middlesex people are a real thing (despite the world trying to bury them).
I would suggest you just forget about it. Argument on the internet is like spitting into the ocean. But my opinion is also all 3, as that would work for trans people who are in middle of transition and not comfortable going either place due to the other people staring.