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I need advice asap...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Unicornswag, Feb 7, 2016.

  1. Unicornswag

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    Sorry I didn't know where to post this but I need advice...

    Basically (short story) last night my best friend told me that recently she feels like she isn't special and she is un needed. She also said that she wasn't looking forward to anything in the future and that she doesn't think anyone will love her.

    Her saying all of these things hit me hard and I didn't know how to reply at the time because I was so flustered. However, I want her to know that she is special and she will meet someone etc... So I have spent about an hour and a half writing a paragraph explaining things, but I'm unsure weather to send it? I can't post it on here because it's on my iPod and it's very long.

    Any advice on what I should do will be appreciated. I want to send it, but what if she doesn't like it or something? Aghhh I just need halp :frowning2: :help:
     
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    I would send it. The fact that you spent that long on it shows that you really care about her and that her friendship means a lot to you. Is there a specific reason why you think she wouldn't like it?
     
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    Okay thank you, and I don't know to be honest, I think I'm just scared.

    Thank you again :slight_smile: <3
     
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    yeah I wouldn't be. She obviously means a lot to you and I think that you should tell her that, especially if she feels the way she does :slight_smile:
     
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    Send it! Especially after that kinda episode, she'll need something or someone to let her know that she is indeed treasured. Plus, she told you all those things- you guys must be very close. Remind her that you're gonna be there for her!
     
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    Awwww thank you... I have just sent it and im very scared
     
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    let us know how it goes, but I'm sure it will be fine <3
     
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    Thank you so much, she sent me loads of smiley face and kiss emojis :slight_smile: dont know why i was so scared hahaa <3
     
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    Awww, so glad she seems much better. Maybe counseling could help her?
     
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    See- nothing to worry about :slight_smile: . I agree with Danni- counselling might be helpful.
     
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    Yeh she is getting counselling at the moment :slight_smile:
     
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    good. well I'm glad it all worked out :slight_smile:
     
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    If someone sent me a message like that, I would be overjoyed.

    Continue being a great friend :slight_smile:
     
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    I dunno but if I were you I'd be like, "Look, gal, I spent a half hour writing a thing to send to you about how much you're my bff and I think you're awesome so just stop worrying about craps, k?" lol ok nvm don't say that.