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If you could change your sexual orientation, would you? If yes, to what?

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  1. plant

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    No, even though it would make my life easier, I love being gay.
     
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    No, I love being what I am. :slight_smile:
     
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    Nope. I'm happy with my sexual orientation
     
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    I would make myself pansexual because I would never have to worry about, for example, identifying as gay and then all of a sudden I want to date a woman and there's all the awkwardness. If I was pan I could date anyone
     
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    Um. No. Why would I?
     
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    hmm.
    a lot of people here claim that they wouldnt change it bcuz its part of who they are
    but its just sexuality. it shouldnt be a part of who you are bcuz that would mean you are an extremely shallow person an all surface "what you see is what you get" type of bro/gal
    that being said i like dudes so no i wouldnt change it
    but its definetly not something that defines me
     
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    I would want to be less confused about myself and be more of definite
    Lesbian or definitely Straight.
    I dunno...
    I wouldn't mind being straight just thinking about my future, as I know my parents do not approve of anything otherwise.
     
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    I wouldn't change it. I'm content being biromantic with an only marginal sexual desire.
     
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    It's constantly evolving, in the process of becoming, just like every other aspect of my personality so, no, I would not change the changing nature of myself.
     
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    Nope.
    Being Gay although I've had some trouble it's who I am.
     
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    I understand your point, but personally I feel like I would be a little different if I wasn't Bi, because it would affect some small choices, and change the lense through which I view some of my experiences. I feel that being part of a minority can also make a person far more tolerant of other minorities.
     
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    Everything about you is a part of who you are. That doesn't mean it's your defining trait.
     
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    This is how I feel too. Being Pan IS a part of me, and I wouldn't be quite the same person without it.:slight_smile:
     
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    If I would actually look like a girl, then yes. I would like to try it. Idk why but it sounds cool to me to be a lesbain woman. (not meant to be offensive to anyone)
     
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    No, because my homosexuality has made me become more open minded to other people.
     
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    Of course I wouldn't! I don't mean to sound narcissistic or anything but being queer is one of my favorite parts about myself!
     
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    Yes. To 100% heterosexual.
     
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    Honestly? As much as I love women, I do wish I was straight sometimes.. I accept myself for who I am but things are hard sometimes and I feel like straight people don't have to deal with certain crap that LGBT deal with.
     
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    I would never change my sexuality because it's just a part of me, the only thing I would even think about changing are some of my decisions I made as a teenager. I never should of decided to get closer to my crush because I loved him and wanted to spend way more time with him at school. That is one thing I would do differently because I pretty much set myself up to have a broken heart.
     
  20. Embi

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    I think being bi is amazing, but the fact that society (including many queer people) has so many prejudices, makes me wish I was a lesbian sometimes. Never would go back to being straight though, even though I am not as openly bi as I wish I was, I absolutely love being a part of the lgbt+ community and I remember that shortly before I realized I was bi, I started to wish that I belonged to this community.
    I would never change my sexuality, if I could because it's a part of me and made me a better person in some ways :slight_smile: