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Unsure about my sexuality please help!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by hoolahoopycray, May 27, 2017.

  1. hoolahoopycray

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    Do you guys think I'm gay?
    I basically just want you guys opinions if you're willing :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I'm 17 and I've only dated guys. I know I'm into them cause I just appreciate broad shoulders and s*** like that and yeah I've got turned on making out with guys before. I've never got with a girl except when drunk although I have defo wanted to before and I don't really remember but as long as I can remember I have been attracted to girls. When I was young and found out what lesbians were I was kind like wow that's hot. The only porn that turned me on was lesbian (but apparently that's not relevant) and I've just had sooo many crushes on girls, mostly ones I know and not celebrities whereas with guys it's mainly celebrity crushes. Maybe I'm bi I just don't know cause I kinda go through periods of being totally into girls and then totally into guys so it's confusing.
    Side note: I've only dated guys but never really had feelings for them.. like at first I was kinda infatuated but after a couple of weeks I just got bored and was proper just take it or leave it type thing. Any way let me know what ya think :slight_smile:
     
  2. Winter Maiden

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    Sounds like bisexual to me. I am bisexual myself and there are times when I am attracted to one sex more than I usually am but I always seem to prefer girls no matter what. And it just seems that you have a stronger preference for girls imo. Hope this helps
     
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  3. Mysteria

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    It definitely sound like you could be bi. :slight_smile:
     
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    It definitely sounds to me like you are bisexual. Do not worry, you are in good company! I think a good way to help you figure it out is to look at romantic attraction and sexual attraction separately, and figure it out from there. That's how I did it. There is a possibility you could even be heteroflexible, but I personally think bisexual sounds more in line with what you described.
     
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    Bisexuality is a spectrum. You can prefer girls and still be into guys. So if you actually like guys and girls (if you're willing to be with gender non-conforming people, that may be more pan), dating both and such, then it is entirely possible that you're bisexual.