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Old 8th Feb 2010, 09:04 PM   #21
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This reminds me of an episode of the office where Andy thinks he is gay and keeps talking to Oscar about it. Someone tells Andy he isn't gay and he says "Thank god."

Gullible insecure people are funny.
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Old 8th Feb 2010, 09:35 PM   #22
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This reminds me of something I talked about with my straight women friends..

What would straight men "prefer" if they had to pick one: making out with another guy, or letting another guy give him a bj?
-I said a straight guy would probably prefer making out since it doesn't involve anything too private.
-The girls said a straight guy would prefer the bj because making out is more emotional/physical involving the entire body and he could just pretend that it was a girl giving the oral sex.

What do you all think?
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Old 9th Feb 2010, 05:55 AM   #23
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This reminds me of something I talked about with my straight women friends..

What would straight men "prefer" if they had to pick one: making out with another guy, or letting another guy give him a bj?
-I said a straight guy would probably prefer making out since it doesn't involve anything too private.
-The girls said a straight guy would prefer the bj because making out is more emotional/physical involving the entire body and he could just pretend that it was a girl giving the oral sex.

What do you all think?
Actually I would have to go with the bj. Because it lacks the intimacy the guy can just (sort of) remove himself from the homosexual situation.
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Old 6th Mar 2010, 07:34 PM   #24
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I believe it
When I came out to my best friend, he said it made him think about his own sexuality and how deep his feelings for me were.
He concluded that they're purely brotherly.
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Old 6th Mar 2010, 10:29 PM   #25
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I don't really like articles like that, being gay isn't something scientific. It's something you just know. If you're gay you probably just know.
Pretty much everything is scientific, whether or not you like it. That's all I have to add.
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Old 7th Mar 2010, 05:03 AM   #26
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This is one of the most common questions young guys ask themselves. The truth is, very few of us are 100% straight (or 100% gay). Lots of heterosexual men have fantasies about other guys, sometimes at the peak of orgasm, and this leaves them feeling very insecure. It's one of the most carefully kept secrets in male society. You're really only gay when you've concluded, without a doubt, that you enjoy males sexually more than females. Random fantasies and even sexual encounters don't make you gay.
I found this pretty interesting, it would be weird for a straight guy to have fantasies about guys... o_O And confusing. Probably one of the reasons why so many guys are homophobic.
Since I don't really believe in bisexuality, I need to disagree. Most of us are 100% gay (or 100% straight). And before all you bi's attack me, you need to understand that I've never met a bi person (myself included) who didn't turn out to be fully gay afterall.
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Old 7th Mar 2010, 05:35 AM   #27
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This is one of the most common questions young guys ask themselves. The truth is, very few of us are 100% straight (or 100% gay). Lots of heterosexual men have fantasies about other guys, sometimes at the peak of orgasm, and this leaves them feeling very insecure. It's one of the most carefully kept secrets in male society. You're really only gay when you've concluded, without a doubt, that you enjoy males sexually more than females. Random fantasies and even sexual encounters don't make you gay.
I found this pretty interesting, it would be weird for a straight guy to have fantasies about guys... o_O And confusing. Probably one of the reasons why so many guys are homophobic.
Since I don't really believe in bisexuality, I need to disagree. Most of us are 100% gay (or 100% straight). And before all you bi's attack me, you need to understand that I've never met a bi person (myself included) who didn't turn out to be fully gay afterall.
Just because you've never met one that is truly bi doesn't mean they don't exist.
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Old 7th Mar 2010, 05:37 AM   #28
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Most of us are 100% gay (or 100% straight)
Where on Earth did you get that statistic? Kinsey, in the only large, detailed study ever conducted on human sexuality, said that only about 10% of the population was entirely gay (Kinsey 6) or straight (Kinsey 0). Everyone else, according to his research, is somewhere on the continuum. Other, smaller studies support that idea (though sometimes with varying percentages). I have never seen any data that supports the notion that most people are 100% one way or the other.

And as far as having never met a bisexual person... would you tell a farmer in rural China who has never met a Caucasian person that Caucasians don't exist? The argument is equally specious.
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I don't really like articles like that, being gay isn't something scientific. It's something you just know. If you're gay you probably just know.
Please name something non-religious that can't be related to or explained in a scientific way. You can't.
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Since I don't really believe in bisexuality, I need to disagree. Most of us are 100% gay (or 100% straight). And before all you bi's attack me, you need to understand that I've never met a bi person (myself included) who didn't turn out to be fully gay afterall.

So, what may I ask are the people that are not included in your quantifier?
(Surely you knew you couldn't get away with making such a statement without starting an arguement .)

On topic though, I could sort of believe what the original statement claimed. While I am not attracted to women at all, there have been a few occasions where I have been curious about having sex with a woman. Nothing too graphic, but more just curious about how it would be not to have another guy there in bed with me. I could imagine that straight people may wonder just the opposite, without ever actually desiring to participate in it.
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