quick and important question

[toremi]

Need a quick answer if possible.

I currently am sick (head cold, sore throat) and I got a canker sore on my tongue yesterday I think from the flu and stress.

Now my guy I have hooked up with a cpl times wants to get together tonight.

Is it more dangerous to be sexually active (ie oral sex) when you are sick and or have a canker sore?

If so I wanna stay away cause although he says he is clear you never know

[alan t]

I don't know about the sore but if you have a cold I think you should stay away... you'll probably give it to him.

[JohnnyBoy]

I would hold off, tell him the truth. After all you don't wanna get him sick.

I had mono for about 2 months right as my boyfriend and I started talking...I honestly didn't mind though because we didn't kiss or have sex that whole time which made things go slow and it worked out...anyway...

...and especially if you don't know if he's clean or not, open sores/cuts definitely make it easier for diseases to get into the blood stream and the fact your immune system isn't top notch doesn't do much either.

[Mlpguy88]

Wait until your better, no need for two people to get sick.

[toremi]

For sure! That's what I did. I was straight up!

Go me -- other than that, I learned enough to know not to meet up with him again too.

So it was win/win!